A Type 8 mother goes to war over her teenage daughter’s exclusion from a group chat, and learns that protection her child never asked for can close the door to the conversations she wants most.
When her closest friend was diagnosed, an Enneagram Type 5 answered with research instead of presence. A coaching story about the Investigator, avarice, isolation, and the growth path toward Type 8.
An Enneagram Type 2 gave and gave, then quietly kept score. A coaching story about the Helper’s pride, resentment, and learning to name your own needs out loud.
As her family divides up caring for their aging mother, a Type 9 agrees to everything and forgets herself. A coaching story about reclaiming your own voice.
An Enneagram Type 7 kept the relationship light to avoid pain, until the motion stopped working. A coaching story about presence, commitment, and learning to stay.
When a Type Four’s envy turned her closest friendship into a mirror she couldn’t stop looking into, she discovered the Enneagram’s path from comparison to equanimity.
A Type Three’s gift for reading rooms made him successful at work and invisible at home. When his wife asked what he actually wanted, he discovered he had no answer.
An Enneagram Type 9 coaching story about losing yourself in a relationship, the quiet pattern of merging with your partner, and learning to come back to your own voice.
Renata loved Bram completely, and still couldn’t stop testing him. A coaching story about what happens when a Type 6 Loyalist’s search for certainty threatens the very relationship she’s trying to protect.
Daniel could research anything — except how to be emotionally present for his wife. A story about what happens when a Type 5 Investigator learns that love requires more than knowledge.
You’re having the same argument again. Your partner withdraws when you try to connect, or maybe they’re criticizing your perfectly reasonable approach to something, or perhaps they’re making plans that completely ignore…
When Sarah, a Type Nine, first discovered the Enneagram, her immediate reaction was to rush to Google and search “Enneagram Type 9 and Type 3 compatibility.” Her partner Jake was clearly a Three, and she’d heard…
Your colleague rolls their eyes when the boss announces another team-building exercise. Meanwhile, you’re secretly excited about the chance to understand your teammates better. Sound familiar? The Enneagram at work…